This, I think, has been one of the major stumbling blocks (though not necessarily always in a bad way) in my being a disciplinarian. I don’t react well to bratty behavior, or rather, I don’t react as one would expect a spanko to react. When confronted with true brattiness, I tend to get annoyed, angry…… Continue reading Should You Spank Your Woman When You’re In An Emotional State?
I know it’s been awhile since my last post. Life’s been busy the past couple of weeks, including a business trip in a hotel with terrible wireless internet service. Last month, while summarizing her 17th reassurance spanking, Sparkle wrote the following: “Side note: Of the paddles at Adam & Gillians, the one we don’t have that I’d most…… Continue reading A Valentine’s Day Spanking For My Woman
Our bed broke Saturday morning. Unfortunately (or fortunately, as the case may be), it was during a fairly mundane activity. I was sitting on the side of the bed, putting my shoes on. Sparkle came and sat next to me, and the next thing we knew, we were suddenly much closer to the floor. After…… Continue reading Can A Bed Break Due To Too Much Spanking?
I mentioned in my last entry that I’m not a great fan of ceremony, particularly when it comes to spanking. I think I’d go crazy in a relationship where there was a daily/weekly/monthly/whatever “accounting” of misdeeds that followed the same pattern. It works for some people, including some good friends of mine, and there’s nothing wrong with…… Continue reading Is there A Spanking Ceremony?
So here’s the mundane (and maybe not-so-mundane) about me. I’m a 30 year old guy with a deep interest in spanking. I’m primarily a top, but I do switch occasionally. I’ve been married for a bit over 5 years to a wonderful woman who’s known throughout the online spanking scene as “Sparkle”. She and I…… Continue reading A little more about me
As I alluded to in my previous post, I first began exploring spanking about 12 years ago when I started college. Oh, I’d thought about it plenty before that. My earliest memory of spanking being something of interest was back in the first grade when a classmate told me her brother had been spanked the…… Continue reading How And Why I Became Interested In Spanking
I hadn’t planned on taking so long to write this, but as it frequently does, life got the better of me for a few days. Busy at work, busy at the firehouse, yada yada. But, as Iris keeps reminding me, this entry is overdue. A quick recap: as most of you know, Iris and I made…… Continue reading Collecting A Bet: Spanking My Wife